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I’m sorry, I just have to ask*

*And I realise that not [b]all[/b] new posters do this, but…

When you come to a site as a new person, and you basically introduce yourself by saying something [b]rude[/b], what response are you expecting ?

In a way it’s like coming into a new town and immediately [b]mooning[/b] the residents. What do you see resulting from that ?

One of my favorite posts here about this, from a friend, sums up what we occasionally see (thanks @uncalled4):

[quote]"Why introduce yourself? Ain't nobody got time for that. Just do a psychotic verbal drive by." I mean, these people fling open the door like Kramer on Seinfeld.[/quote]

Then later we see them upset and announcing that they’re leaving, because "nobody’s friendly here."

Just something I’ve been wondering about.
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its kinda like walking into a new store, and before youve even walked around, you shout at staff, complain about the products and service, before youve even had any time to experience it.....it doesn't make sense.

ive seen numerous new users make these types of posts, and all i can guess is: for some reason these people expected to be instantly popular😏.

When does a stranger EVER walk into a party and become the life of it ?

I wonder if its modern culture that has trained people to [b]expect[/b] everything they want, [b]immediately [/b]?🤷‍♀️

Others here have also made some really good points about actual age demographics, some supoosed 'new' users being alt accounts, and of course the counterproductive and hypocritical mode of instantly hating on everybody ...and wondering why nobody likes you 😅

Its just [b]freaking bizarre[/b]....and pretty fucking stoopid if you ask me 🤪
@OogieBoogie Yes, thank you ! 😅