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I’m sorry, I just have to ask*

*And I realise that not [b]all[/b] new posters do this, but…

When you come to a site as a new person, and you basically introduce yourself by saying something [b]rude[/b], what response are you expecting ?

In a way it’s like coming into a new town and immediately [b]mooning[/b] the residents. What do you see resulting from that ?

One of my favorite posts here about this, from a friend, sums up what we occasionally see (thanks @uncalled4):

[quote]"Why introduce yourself? Ain't nobody got time for that. Just do a psychotic verbal drive by." I mean, these people fling open the door like Kramer on Seinfeld.[/quote]

Then later we see them upset and announcing that they’re leaving, because "nobody’s friendly here."

Just something I’ve been wondering about.
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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Some have an attitude to keep a safe distance from getting hurt. It will push many people away though especially if it's the first impression we get from someone.

I was very warm and open when I joined as I respect "your place"
@Queendragonfly and thats why we all like you and its both our places now
@Queendragonfly Yes, you’ve been very cool. That’s why I was careful to acknowledge that not everyone does that.
The ones who do are pretty hilarious, though.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Queendragonfly Within a very short time, you have become a great addition to SW!
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F