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How can a stranger upset me?

It has been far more easier to communicate with men here but of course, not all of them. Women mostly prefer limiting it to post comments and that's fine. BUT...

Met a woman some time back who expressed way too much about her life on one of my post and then suddenly deletes all her messages.

When asked why, I get the most unexpected reply:

"Look, I no longer feel comfortable in whatever it is you're looking to do with any such information, or telling you anymore about myself. I've deleted my comments on your post. Can you please be respectful and delete the ones replying to my own? Please! Thank you in advance..."

What kind of a weird message was that? What am I looking to do???

If people are here to just burn some time, then it is absolutely cool. If you don't wanna share stuff, it is more than okay but when you are proactively expressing things, it is only respectful for the other person to acknowledge your message than to ignore you.

It took me a great deal to control myself from speaking unkind things that would have hurt her. Let's just say, it's not in my culture to be rude to someone.
SW-User
Honestly, people do not come here to be psychoanalyzed . They come here to enjoy time and meet others. Others LIKE them. Thats why its called Similarworlds for a reason. If people want or need help, they will ask for it. The best thing you need to do is relate to others , not use your degrees as such. Plus look in the mirror before youre so quick to judge. Im bipolar and i dont want help from anyone on this site. Hell no!! I have help on the outside thank you!! Have a great evening!!
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I met people like that normal...first they express then get into nutshell blaming all men are crazy..
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@SW-User i can't entertain them .... seriously..lol
SW-User
@AngelKrish lucky me I'm a woman. Most men contact. But there are some really chilled out women too
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@SW-User true damn true...
Apun fir bhi yahan bore ho Raha hai...koi baat hi nahi karta...lol
HazyDayz · 36-40
Maybe she is a paranoid schizophrenic 🤷🏻‍♀️
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@HazyDayz Can't diagnose that without knowing her much but something wasn't all that normal.
It definitely sounds like she overexposed and then had regrets. You did nothing wrong.
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard Simply deleting her messages (which she did) would have served the purpose. I understand some times we share and regret what we shared.

Just did see no apparent reason to accuse me of some hidden motive to do something to her. I actually empathized with her situation and would have liked to help if she asked for it and because I had a pure intent it affected me.
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SW-User
@SW-User I would have been okay if it was my fault but I am glad i did not hurt her back. At least i can sleep without a guilt.
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@SW-User Haha! Not overthinking but it only came as a shock. Not used to people acting this way with me.

 
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