The problem with blocking is it’s final. There’s no chance to sort out a misunderstanding.

A guy I met here yesterday spoke to me for a few hours in conversation that was positive and friendly without falling into the usual private questions. I thought here’s someone worth staying in contact with.

Today he has sent me one word, “goodbye” and then blocked me.😕

I can’t ask why I’ve been blocked or resolve any misunderstanding. It’s a shame.

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

You probably didn’t get to where he wanted to be quick enough. He wanted to wank and you wanted to talk. Men here don’t want to talk.

Mindfulness

@Keepitsimple some of us do!!!! A wanks a bonus! 🤣🤣🤣

helenS · 36-40, F

@Keepitsimple Most men want to talk while doing it.

Mindfulness

@helenS That sounds like multi tasking to me! 🤣

helenS · 36-40, F

@Mindfulness Yes it's amazing. They love talking while doing it, and they need someone who listens.

Mindfulness

@helenS you know I'm a man, right? 🤣🤣
Not sure I've ever had a wank while someone talks to me... started to once but work stopped the zoom call until I left. 🤣🤣

helenS · 36-40, F

@Mindfulness Yes I think I know you are a man. I don't think men want to be talked to, while doing it; they want to talk themselves, and they love it when a woman listens.

Mindfulness

@helenS women listen??? 🤣🤣
I'm being facetious of course.
There's some oddballs about, I just don't want to be lumped in with the perverts... I mean I'm I the right age bracket now! 🤦‍♂️

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

@Mindfulness I'm a man as well, and I didn't take anything helenS said personally. I [i]know[/i] I'm not a pervert, I don't need to have that validated by the women here.