The problem with blocking is it’s final. There’s no chance to sort out a misunderstanding.

A guy I met here yesterday spoke to me for a few hours in conversation that was positive and friendly without falling into the usual private questions. I thought here’s someone worth staying in contact with.

Today he has sent me one word, “goodbye” and then blocked me.😕

I can’t ask why I’ve been blocked or resolve any misunderstanding. It’s a shame.

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

He jizzed and left.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Mellowgirl

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Mellowgirl this!!!

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl oh wow lol

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Gr8Guy1979 that's what someone told me. Basically the person was fine with me right up until we exchanged photos then he stopped messaging completely.
I rather speak plainly and truthfully.

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl sorry for the late reply !!!! You are right and I understand where you are coming from!!!! I hope your week is going well

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Gr8Guy1979 my week is going OK thank you, what about yours?
As for the comment, maybe it's not true, maybe he had other ideas them as friends/couple etc and the exchange changed that.
Either way it's better she move on. Coz he's not able to articulate whatever it is going on to ease her distress.

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl thats great that you are well … I’m sorry if I said something wrong or came out wrong ….

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl I went back on my messages and maybe I said something kinda dumb lol I did not mean to come across that way

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Gr8Guy1979 no its nothing personal just when people say, I'm right! I feel like my words in some way have come across as final when that's not true. We are entitled to our interpretation on things.
But I also believe that given how many people catfish, send and what to receive nudes here. I genuinely believe that silence after an exchange, means he either lost interest or jizzed and left. Now its kinda to say the latter then the former it's rejection in some way but its a easier one to take than someone not fancying you.

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl Thank you so much for sharing and I also know that there is still good people I give people the benefit of the doubt women can do that too it actually happened to me but I had to move on and forgive it was hard cause my heart opened up but like I said there’s still good out there I don’t feel bad because I know I did not cross the line with her

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Gr8Guy1979 I personally don't think finding someone online is feasible.
Not unless you both lead lives that either allow regular travel or you can afford to up and leave to move to where the other lives.

Unless you only want the online fakeship!

Each to their own.
It's a learning process.

Gr8Guy1979 · 41-45, M

@Mellowgirl I respect your point of view !!!! Mine is I have no strangers in my life just people I have not meet yet that’s my modo lol not everyone is fake yes to good to be true yes but I have meet some solid people that I still talk to after 10 years and never once crossed the line tag your it!! Lol