Is it weird that 2 people don't appear to shower daily?

I often hear them go to the bathroom brush their teeth, 8 presume wash their face. But I never hear water running long enough to say it's filling the sink or a shower.

They both have a hair washing day after 2 weeks but that's the most I see of them washing.

I hear spray deodorant being used, they wear clean clothes but their room smells.

They eat in there, spend all their time in there and they keep the door shut.

Am I being weird..? I know I should mind my business but I find all this weird.

Especially because I shower or quick wash every day.

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Cigarguy101 I think this is normal. Unless there is a weather/drought warning.
This to me is an essential part of life. It helps you build and maintain self esteem, hygiene, and time management.

bijouxbroussard · F

Are these people with whom you live ? I was seeing something on YouTube from people who say they were raised bathing only once a week, they don’t use washcloths, etc. Very different from my upbringing. I guess people have different needs, but if they smell, whatever they’re doing isn’t sufficient. 🤔

Pinkstarburst · F

You say they keep the door to their room shut yet you also say it smells. How would you know this? Sounds like someone is overstepping boundaries.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Pinkstarburst well they have to come out at some point...

WonderGirl ·

I found this old book called The Book of Life. It was from the turn of the century, the 19th, and the 1900s. That book said you had to bathe once a month and wash your hair once a month; there were all kinds of crazy things like that.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@WonderGirl I don't think I could live like that unless there was a water shortage

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

Honestly your hygiene habits are the bad one of all youve listed, do you know what soap does to your hair and skin, it strips your bodies natural oils and natual biodiversity away. You should not actually wash every day! Lol

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@WolfGirlwh0r3 I'll leave you to live your life with your natural oils and over growth of biodiversity.
Mine are doing perfectly fine.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

Do they shower elsewhere, like a gym?

JonUK41 · 36-40, MNew

Are these people living with you?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@JonUK41 they live rent free in my partner's home. His sister and her boyfriend.

FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

Seems like there's an invasion of privacy going on somehow.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@FloorGenAdm yes... Something's you shouldn't know about others. Unfortunately they've been forced upon me. And given my maternity leave it means I'm available to see and witness everything. So the privacy I wanted was removed and now so id theirs. Still won't stop me noticing that 2 people don't wash. Whether it's my business or not

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