Is it weird that 2 people don't appear to shower daily?

I often hear them go to the bathroom brush their teeth, 8 presume wash their face. But I never hear water running long enough to say it's filling the sink or a shower.

They both have a hair washing day after 2 weeks but that's the most I see of them washing.

I hear spray deodorant being used, they wear clean clothes but their room smells.

They eat in there, spend all their time in there and they keep the door shut.

Am I being weird..? I know I should mind my business but I find all this weird.

Especially because I shower or quick wash every day.

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bijouxbroussard · F

Are these people with whom you live ? I was seeing something on YouTube from people who say they were raised bathing only once a week, they don’t use washcloths, etc. Very different from my upbringing. I guess people have different needs, but if they smell, whatever they’re doing isn’t sufficient. 🤔

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard I find it very odd for a young woman especially to be like this. I'm desperately trying not to be judgemental but I told my partner it was a bad idea living like this. There are some things you really shouldn't know about others and this is one of them. I get it that it should be of concern to her boyfriend but as mentioned the smell that comes out of their room is awful. Simply because they spend so much time in there. I have had to consider whether this was about jealousy or something else.
We are different and like you said we were raised differently.