Is being a virgin at 35 old fashioned?

Was just wondering if it's outdated and old fashioned of me to still be a virgin at 35? I ain't scared of losing my virginity at all because it's every ladies dream to lose her virginity and transit from a lady to a woman, but I am scared of losing it one man then later get dumped by that man then opt to another man. Because my desire is to lose it to just one man and that one man would be the one to spend eternity with me. Is it possible ?

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

There's no right or wrong answer I'm afraid. Your personal preference may cause stress to your potential partners or partner in general but in the end, your decision is what makes you comfortable. Is it old fashioned? Yes. Is it outdated? Never, because you have a line of reasoning.

What I can say is my perspective on it is stress relief and a show of affection. Eternity doesn't exist for me, this life is all that matters and I could die tomorrow so I live in the moment. It's a different perspective and I have no issue with sex but its only comfortable with someone I love.