@lovecatsnothumans: I understand your side but when I married at 22 I had those rose colored glasses on also. Unfortunately I grew up. I am talking out of experience. I'm sorry if you want to be nasty because you don't agree with me.

@Quietrumble: It's not my fault that your life didn't work out the way you wanted it to. Don't mislead me with your bitterness.

@lovecatsnothumans: mislead you?? Hmmmmm, I can't argue with a girl your age who knows from experience how perfect her life is going to be.

@UsuallyInvisible: Then get a higher paying job?

That's what I am in the process of doing. I have a degree, but that isn't enough these days. Anyway, I was just answering your question. @lovecatsnothumans:

@UsuallyInvisible: Just be grateful you have a man who can support you, So many women wish they can stay home and take care of their kids. Now, feminism has forced women to work along with taking on motherhood, which is a disaster.

@bigjohndl: yeah but, you're a REAL MAN right

@room101: Oh, sorry. I didn't know you weren't american, but my statement still holds.

@room101: I just treated her right and respected my wife and life took care of itself. And if that was a slight, I am man enough to have retired in my 50's and enjoy life on my ranch and spend my time traveling and riding motorcycles now.

@bigjohndl: I agree! I'm far from lazy, unlike what others think. I want to clean, cook all the healthy meals and snacks, do all my man's errands, and just make his life comfortable so that he doesn't have to worry about all that. I just find most "careers" and "jobs" unfulfilling. Money isn't whatI want. A husband is what I want. If you were to ask me 10 years ago what I wanted to be, I would have shrugged my shoulders, not knowing what I wanted career-wise, but I did know that I definitely wanted to be a housewife. However, I was too afraid to say this because of ridicule. My dream is to be a loving, warm housewife so that I can make a difference in someone's life.

@lovecatsnothumans: Some man will be very lucky to have a wife like you.

@Oleandro: How is cooking all the meals, cleaning the house, running errands, raising kids, doing laundry, being ready for your husband when he gets home etc etc etc "doing nothing?" Why is the role of a wife so unbelievably misunderstood these days??? So irritating!

@room101: Excuse me, but feminism does not give women a better quality of life. Women are in debt, working themselves into the ground, throwing their own kids off on babysitters and daycares to raise them, becoming depressed and having problems finding a good man.

@lovecatsnothumans: no luv. that's living in the 21st century. that's living in reality

@room101: But, we have choices, and I choose to go a different path than the miserable sheep.

@eman2017: What you have said is false and exaggerated. Just because he supports me doesn't mean he owns me. You let liberalism screw your head up with lies.

@Complexconfessions: That is uncalled for. Bully for her for wanting to be a housewife and take care of the homefront while the man does what he is supposed to do, provide for the family.

@bigjohndl: Thank you. I am in my early 20s, and that's all I ever wanted in life is to be a wife and homemaker, nothing more, but people shame me for wanting that.

@lovecatsnothumans: That is very noble of you. I hope for the best for you. Shame on them for shaming you. It is probably because they did not achieve that goal and would hate for anyone else to.