@bigjohndl: I agree! I'm far from lazy, unlike what others think. I want to clean, cook all the healthy meals and snacks, do all my man's errands, and just make his life comfortable so that he doesn't have to worry about all that. I just find most "careers" and "jobs" unfulfilling. Money isn't whatI want. A husband is what I want. If you were to ask me 10 years ago what I wanted to be, I would have shrugged my shoulders, not knowing what I wanted career-wise, but I did know that I definitely wanted to be a housewife. However, I was too afraid to say this because of ridicule. My dream is to be a loving, warm housewife so that I can make a difference in someone's life.