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3 weeks of talking to this girl…

And then she asks “is it okay if I’m asexual?”

Like yeah it’s obviously okay, I don’t judge people for their sexuality, but frankly it feels like you wasted my time.
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Ducky · 31-35, F
Well, not if she just wanted to be friends from the beginning... 🤷‍♀ Though, I personally find it hard to take anyone who refers to themselves as asexual seriously; that if one truly were, they wouldn’t need to say it. Could be her way of trying to tell you she just wants to be friends. Idk
GabbySA8 · F
@Ducky sadly ducky, we met on a dating app and had romantic conversations regularly
Ducky · 31-35, F
@GabbySA8 I see. I’m sorry to hear. You know her better, of course, but it seems to me like she’s only saying she’s asexual as a way of telling you she’s not interested. Whatever the case, it sounds like you were jerked around by her. Sorry that had to happen, but look at the silver lining: better 3 weeks than 3 months or years, like many others spend in empty relationships. Don’t let it bring you down, let this experience make you tougher and wiser instead.