If your partner were going through a rough time and tried to talk to you, would you make the conversation about yourself?

I try to always listen, ask questions if I don't understand, try to be there even if quietly because sometimes that's what needed. I don't mean silence, I mean just be there to lean on.

I’m great at listening
Engaging and asking questions as well
(Some people say that I ask too many)
Ultimately, people confess everything to me
Luckily for everyone, I’m also really good at keeping real secrets

if someone is in distress i always try to help them figure stuff out, sometimes i refer to my own struggles
but only to try to help them

I would listen and try to help. But if it's a problem that's an ongoing saga for him, then I have to leave him to it.

I'd try to listen.. cook for them perhaps and put their feet in a basin with warm water and herbs. Try to sing to them maybe..:)

That’s when I listen… cook them something delicious … pour the wine and 😏 …. After that we hug and I listen some more 😌🥰