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Visually appealling?

If your girl wears a thong bikini in front of other guys and they stare at her ass... is it a compliment to the man or disrespectful of her?
I was raised to believe that staring was impolite. I think admiration of a nice ass is expected, but being a creep isn’t.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
if i wear a Thong bikini? they better be starring at my ass!
@Amylynne Yes!
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
they can stare all they want

I'm the one she's going home with... 🤷‍♂️
Wallflow3r · 26-30, F
Disrespect to her and her man but that's just my opinion. But again if she's dressing like that in front of her mans friends than she's prob not much of a keeper anyways lol
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
Staring isn’t a good thing. Looking with appreciation is a compliment to both in my opinion.
It comes with the territory . And yes, most guys are going to look. If a woman is worried about being ogled knowing it’s possible, then they need to be mindful of what they wear.
If i look it a compliment. Most women are much younger than me and i would not say or do anything to them
exexec · 61-69, C
It wasn't quite a thong, but still sexy, and she took it as a compliment when men stared at her ass. I agree.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Staring is disrespectful, but a passing glance is affirmation of her charm!
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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
If she is wearing a thong bikini in public she wants her assets to be noticed and admired
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Appreciating a woman on purely physical, aesthetical reasons is not, in and of itself, showing disrespect to that person. I don't think there's any reason why people cannot view someone on that level, as long as they remember that this is a whole person and her physical attributes are just one aspect of her person.

Whatever the man gets out of it doesn't really matter. It's not about him at all.
If she is ok to show it then she should expect people to look
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I always found thongs kinda trashy
Wallflow3r · 26-30, F
@Ryannnnnn It's cause they are 🤢especially when it's worn as a "bikini bottom"
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@Wallflow3r I think you don't have to do that anyway, we like shape and it's better to leave a little something to the imagination.
I would like them to see her. See my pride in her
DIRTYMIND · 56-60, C
Compliment all the way.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Never happen
they may Look. but Mind thier manners
I like it when My Girl makes guys mad
It's a compliment. I wouldn't want anyone to say she doesn't have a nice ass.
PassingThrough · 46-50, M
Depends on the guy and how he views the relationship. Personally I’d look at it as a compliment if someone wanted to look at any woman who I’d be with wearing a thong… hell I’d be staring at her lol
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Not a compliment, but if she's showing it off she's fully aware of the reactions she'll get, so I can't see how it would be demeaning when she's getting the reaction she expects and wants.
Spnk8 · 36-40, M
Yeah i mean when this has happened to girls that im dating i never really cared cause i know shes with me and so id usually see it as a compliment
PurplePumpkin · 31-35
how tall are you?
PurplePumpkin · 31-35
@Keyra11 or I mean.. i dont know? lol i can show a pic I guess?
Keyra11 · F
PurplePumpkin · 31-35
@Keyra11 posted in yoru other thread cause this one had like 300 views lol
ron4u · 61-69, M
I rather like other guys looking at who I'm with, i find it a compliment, but i am a very open minded person as well
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Got nothing to do with the man, all to do with the woman and how she wants to be seen by others.
lovebcups · 61-69, M
I take it as a compliment to them both , her for having a nice ass and him for being the one taking her home .
cotheo · 56-60, M
depense, but starring is not really a compliment. a little view for sure
Rambler · 61-69, M
I'd say it's just their usual reaction, neither a compliment nor disrespectful
Markymark · 46-50
I’d take it as a compliment. If she wants to show it off it’s expected for guys to look.
I think it's a compliment to HER looks. The guy didn't have anything to do with it.
BigAssLeech · 31-35, M
She can wear whatever she wants. Not really my concern who does or does not look at her
Magenta · F
Neither. Why would anyone expect any less when revealing that much.
Iwillwait · M
This cannot be considered disrespectful.
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lovebcups · 61-69, M
admirition is good beeing crude is uncool
SW-User
Definitely a compliment.
Dirtman1956 · 61-69, M
It’s a compliment to her and her man.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
It's definitely a compliment
Depends on the length of the stare.
ninjavu · 51-55, M
Compliment to both. ;)
SoftServe · 26-30, M
Crude people stare
JackJames · M
A compliment in my mind.
Disrespectful of her
redback · 51-55, M
Compliment
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Compliment
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
This is a grey area, especially considering how messed up relationships are. For me, it would make me feel a little weird, but I would support what my girlfriend wanted to do because she's trustworthy.

It's unrealistic to expect a few men not to stare for longer than usual. I always think "that's a lucky dude".
But, after a certain amount of time staring, it IS creepy.
DDonde · 31-35, M
It's never a compliment to the man. Will not weigh in on if it's disrespectful to her or not.
samanthaX · 41-45, T
Compliment

 
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