Simple cotton nightgowns...

@SW-User She has an entire room in the house.. Yes she could literally wear a different item every night and not repeat one for three years...

@pdqsailor1 Somewhat extravagant.. are you sure you're not making this up?

@SW-User Extravagant is relative.. Look at it from my perspective - we make love every day and have done so for nearly 20 years.. She feels comfortable wearing these things during intimacy and I facilitate this by buying these things for her.. No I am not making any of this up, over the years I have become very knowledgeable about Women's intimate sleep wear... styles, fabrics, finishing, features - but then again she has given me every bit of incentive to become knowledgeable about these things.. How many people do you know that make love every day? Only FOUR percent of all couples do this and even fewer have maintained this level of activity over a long term basis..

@pdqsailor1 You have listed all this before. What are you trying to prove? Presumably anal on her period?

@SW-User No she is well past menopause no periods.. I am not trying to prove anything.. I am trying to DEMONSTRATE that long term frequent intimacy is possible... and explain (teach? ) the conditions to help it to occur.. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE complains that their intimate lives are sub standard but no one seems to have figured out how to satisfactorily fix the problem - I have.. I suppose that me writing about it (anonymously BTW) is leadership by example..

@pdqsailor1 Or possibly not.

@SW-User I have nothing to gain either way... If you chose not to believe that it is possible .. that is your prerogative, if you choose not to learn from my example - that too is your prerogative.. MOST people subsist in sub optimal relationships and muddle through life.. and then they die.. Why should you be different from the others? I chose to be different from the others and let me assure you that it was far from simple or easy - but it has been very worthwhile.. VERY few people figure out how to live optimally or do what they like and have fulfilment from their lives.

@silkydrawers Ahem... I buy these things but my WIFE wears these things... I get to enjoy her in those things and I have ZERO desire to wear female clothing..