Simple cotton nightgowns...

@helenS it took me YEARS to gradually wean her off of panties in bed.. Started with tap panties that with their wide leg openings were easily accessible, then eventually she would occasionally wear crotchless panties.. then I found some with a zipper that undid.. then some with hook and eye fasteners / buttons at the crotch that undid, then some others with side hook and eye fasteners - like a bra that undid.. then some thongs that undid at the side.. The idea became before I would give her oral sex the panties had to come off.. and then finally, FINALLY she got the message and now no longer wears panties to bed.. When I say it took years.. I mean YEARS...

@pdqsailor1 The only exception for me is when I'm on my period, because I use sanitary pads, not tampons.

@helenS well that is entirely reasonable.. Thankfully we are done with fertility issues being older.. so we are free to enjoy each other every day.. She is the driving force behind that level of frequency - my job is to make certain she enjoys herself.. I think she figures there is every good reason to partake frequently and no reason to avoid doing so...

@SW-User I have nothing to gain either way... If you chose not to believe that it is possible .. that is your prerogative, if you choose not to learn from my example - that too is your prerogative.. MOST people subsist in sub optimal relationships and muddle through life.. and then they die.. Why should you be different from the others? I chose to be different from the others and let me assure you that it was far from simple or easy - but it has been very worthwhile.. VERY few people figure out how to live optimally or do what they like and have fulfilment from their lives.

@silkydrawers Ahem... I buy these things but my WIFE wears these things... I get to enjoy her in those things and I have ZERO desire to wear female clothing..

@Lilred2289 I know... I am the one who gets to cuddle with her...

@pdqsailor1 you definitely know in that case!

@silkydrawers Ok.. my Wife likes silk, cotton, nylon, satin... and I like... what ever SHE likes..Why? Because I am the lucky dude who gets to make love with her..