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Guys, do you actually care if your partner wears sexy lingerie for you?

or does it not matter because it's just going to end up on the floor anyway?
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I used to buy the love of my life sexy panties. I loved it when she wore them. Otherwise she wore what I called her "white cotton Catholic school girl underpants."
dimmerdork · 61-69, M
@hunkalove …oh, I don’t know…personally, I find those “white cotton Catholic school girl underpants” sexy as hell…🙂
Feuerstern · 51-55, M
It may indeed end up on the floor, however it is generally the care and time spend picking out the lingerie that I appreciate. so it is nice to see.
Teslin · M
Not necessary. A waste of $$.
spice1 · 46-50, M
Yes I definitely do, it's gonna come off but the excitement is seeing her wearing it and slowly taking it off.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Not really, if they’re there it’s nice but really I’m fine without them being there.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
Only if he is interested in me wearing it, and more especially, if he is buying.
HatterM · 46-50, M
You do realise this is SW so anything said here is entirely theoretical, right?
Darin99branch · 51-55, M
I’d have to second @Teslin comment. Not necessary. But fun nonetheless.
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Would like to see her wear anything but full cover clothes . ❤️🌹
I bought my Wife see through lingerie. It was very expensive. She put it on and started down the stairs. "Oh Fuck, You could have ironed it first?" Oooohhhhhhhh nevermind.

@Pitchblue I hope that's a joke.
@NerdyPotato I'm Old. It's an Old Joke.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
WillaKissing · 56-60, T
Oh, I care and love her to wear sexy lingerie, this makes it fun and exciting when the lingerie hits the floor.
LookingIn · M
Very nice to find/see.
Hate non-matching lingerie.
Always happy when a partner is commando though 😁
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I don’t really care. To me, a tight white t with no bra is every bit as sexy.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
It depends on anyones definition of "sexy lingerie".
To me nothing is more erotic than plain simple knickers.White,or with little flowers etc.Im not into that slutty black lacy stuff.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
@swirlie I dont know.Its just that i prefer other types.No offence was meant you understand.
swirlie · 31-35, F
Well, actually I am offended that some narrow-minded dude who's pushing 60 years of age would even suggest that black lacy lingerie is only worn by a slut.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
@swirlie awwwboo hoo im offended ooo
Davesmith · 56-60, M
Either way it's coming off 😍
swirlie · 31-35, F
I know your post is addressed to "guys", but if you don't mind me interjecting here, I'll tell you what I've learned about sexy lingerie.

A female entrepreneurial business friend of mine lives in Scandinavia and twice a year I go there to visit because my family is there. My girl-friend owns her own hand-made silk lingerie shop and I do free lingerie modeling for her in her shop for in-house poster advertising which are giant photos that hang by strings from the ceiling.

The purpose of women wearing sexy lingerie, has nothing to do with her partner whatsoever. She doesn't wear lingerie to please him, she wears it to stimulate her own sexual emotions, not his! Lingerie therefore, was only ever intended from it's design perspective to affect the female wearing it, not the person who she'd be taking it off for.

Therefore, if a woman buys sexy lingerie, she should ONLY buy it for herself and for how it makes her feel when she wears it even briefly, not for him because the vast majority of men don't understand the psychological hence emotional aspects of a woman's collection of silk lingerie anyway.
swirlie · 31-35, F
Absolutely correct! Lingerie is all about her and only her. Even when I was doing my non-professional lingerie modeling for my friend, the lingerie she had me wear so that she could photograph 'it' as the primary subject, made me feel emotionally charged the whole time I was wearing it, compared to the Lady Jockey, off-the-rack, black cotton collection I showed up in as I got undressed for the photoshoot!
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@swirlie The one icon that I can think of when it comes to lingerie is Dita Von Teese. I so love her!
swirlie · 31-35, F
Oh yes, a modern day Burlesque dancer and fetish lingerie designer!
DrewLooking4U · 41-45, M
Yes it’s a very sensual and erotic scenario. Plus if she’s putting in the effort then the man better be putting in the same effort to appreciate her commitment
The journey can be as beautiful as the destination, or even better. It's a shame to skip over that.
Rpfun78 · 61-69, M
It’s part of foreplay it’s a signal to let your partner know if it’s the first time
It’s okay to go for it
Morninglory69 · 31-35, M
On a date night/special occasion it doesn’t matter massively but is a very welcoming pleasure if you do.
dmu6891 · 36-40, M
I do! Very sexy. Wouldn’t expect it all the time but appreciate the effort on occasion
Quimliqer · 61-69, MVIP
I always enjoy when she does, it illustrates her premeditated seduction!!
Josh1454 · M
I do but if she naked that’s even better because like you said it will end on the floor.
MeisterAndrew · 41-45, M
Honestly I don't like lingerie. Just a panty or tee if she must but naked is the best.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
I just prefer to get all naked as soon as possibel and get it on.
Strict4u · 56-60, M
Yes it shows she put in a lot of effort to look sexy for me
exexec · 61-69, C
I love it when she wears sexy lingerie!
Manpower · 51-55, M
No, I just want to take them off immediately
No, it's nice as an apetiser of sorts.
teenrob · M
I love both lingerie and heels!
Funlov · M
It’s nice sometimes 😊
MrBrownstone · 41-45, M
robb65 · 56-60, M

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