Ever wanted closure after a relationship and all the person kept doing was cursing you out?? That's crazy, especially after you told them youre done

I just wanted to talk like adults he said he didn't want me but kept coming back and I said I'm just overall done. And simply wanted to speak my peace and be heard out. What was wrong with that?

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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

You don't get to dictate how the other person responds to your attempt at closure.

Perhaps you should reflect on why you broke up with this person in the first place and focus on yourself, not the other party.

UglyTrait91 · 26-30, F

@SumKindaMunster was I wrong in some sort of way? To just be heard out as my final words?

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

@UglyTrait91 No, not wrong. But you can only control yourself, not the other person. Think of your perspective as a gift you offer to the other person. You mean well, and you want the person to open the gift because you put all this time and effort into it, but ultimately you can't make the other person open the gift, or listen to your perspective.

That's on them, not you. It would seem you've learned a bit from this experience. Take that knowledge as solace and try to apply it to future relationships.

Good luck.

UglyTrait91 · 26-30, F

@SumKindaMunster thank you 💝