I Am Working On Myself

Feeling a little ‘mind blown’ right now. Just got done reading an interesting article that popped up on my newsfeed. It talked about how a good way to gauge potential abusive partners is by how they react to the first times you disagree with them, and it occurs to me that my agreeable nature has actually been part of the delay in sniffing out shitty partners. Long periods can go by smoothly.. just happy days until finally something matters enough to me I disagree, then when their head spins 360 I’m in shock.. almost a disbelief, and struggle to come to terms with the sudden change in them.

Wow..
I’m not the sort of person to agree to things I don’t want to do, but it never occurred to me that my 85% laid-back nature could actually be part of the problem in my past mate selection/filtering.