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thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M
Yes, and it can get the better of you, but not giving towards that sensitivity can be the death of you too.... Just try to find a balance, the world already has enough that say either they can't, or they don't, but remember yourself too. Healthy relationships matter a lot here.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thewindupbirdchronicles that makes sense indeed.
thinkingoutloud · F
Yes
Though I don't make someone elses plights my plights. I hold space for theirs.
Though I don't make someone elses plights my plights. I hold space for theirs.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud a smart move!
SW-User
No, I’m too self involved for that
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User haha that makes sense! but you should only give other attention if you have enough yourself!
Raaii · 22-25, F
[c=008099][b][i][u]yes very much [/u][/i][/b][/c]
OogieBoogie · F
I try not to be.
Which sounds harsh, but you can't spend a life continually helping others ....it's not healthy, ultimately .
Esp when some others plights may be self made or self perpetuating.
It's best to selective where one puts ones energies .
Which sounds harsh, but you can't spend a life continually helping others ....it's not healthy, ultimately .
Esp when some others plights may be self made or self perpetuating.
It's best to selective where one puts ones energies .
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie is not harsh, as a people pleaser, i saw my uncle destroy his life for others, my other family members worsen their life for others. i'm in a state where i'm already screwed but i'm not getting worse!
you are one smart boogie! and a terrific oogie!
you are one smart boogie! and a terrific oogie!
OogieBoogie · F
@popmol aww, thanks .
I get where you're coming from though .
Boundaries are hard for some people.
I know I'm still learning myself 🤷
I get where you're coming from though .
Boundaries are hard for some people.
I know I'm still learning myself 🤷
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie i have learned to let go though, partially through games but i like that i learned it