Are you sensitive to others plights?

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I try not to be.

Which sounds harsh, but you can't spend a life continually helping others ....it's not healthy, ultimately .

Esp when some others plights may be self made or self perpetuating.

It's best to selective where one puts ones energies .

popmol · 22-25, M

@OogieBoogie is not harsh, as a people pleaser, i saw my uncle destroy his life for others, my other family members worsen their life for others. i'm in a state where i'm already screwed but i'm not getting worse!

you are one smart boogie! and a terrific oogie!

OogieBoogie · F

@popmol aww, thanks .
I get where you're coming from though .

Boundaries are hard for some people.

I know I'm still learning myself 🤷

popmol · 22-25, M

@OogieBoogie i have learned to let go though, partially through games but i like that i learned it