We’re leaving the FWB chapter behind and actually giving a relationship a real shot.

Dating is largely a mess because people believe in destiny and that belief draws many to flight when things get messy, but in all relationships, it pretty much always eventually gets messy. The honeymoon phase doesn't tend to last and reality eventually sets in, many with destiny beliefs
will simply give up at that point. it's not your fault, It's not about you, if people are getting with you and leaving whenever it gets "Too real." then it's likely these people and their ghosting behavior decided it "Wasn't meant to be" as though you know, It was ever going to be perfect with anyone. and that you couldn't find some way to work it out. this belief in soul mates makes a lot of people bad lovers and dooms them to short term flings and very little else. Success usually looks like taking someone you work well with but not perfectly and you fight like crazy to stay together despite whatever minor disagreements and problems exist in the relationship because it is overall mostly good.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201207/why-you-shouldnt-believe-in-soul-mates

People's beliefs about love are setting them up to fail at it.

This makes me so happy! 😊😊😊 Congratulations, AlyBabes. 💖

Wow, very good for you. 😄

You do deserve someone like that and it`s about time.

Yes, you do deserve someone solid. Wishing you both the best!