Would you be concerned, feel a little skeptical, or feel like you're walking on thin ice? So I...

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Would you be concerned, feel a little skeptical, or feel like you're walking on thin ice?

So I understand that people need to feel reassured to make themselves feel comfortable about a situation or with themselves. But when they overdo it to the point where one feels like the person comes off as skeptical in conversations where...

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BigGuy2 · 31-35, M

Tell them to "get with it and get real"

... also, they may be taking advantage of you being introverted

OpalFlower · 36-40, F

@BigGuy2 I just blocked the individual to get a peace of mind for a few days because the individual told me that she was blocked by two guys she was flirting with. If she does the same stuff with me to them also then yea I don't blame them. Even her cousin says less to her now and just imagine how that conversation went....so to protect all parties and my inner peace blocky time.

BigGuy2 · 31-35, M

@OpalFlower ... don't sugar coat it like that, say it as it is ... 🤭🤭🤭

SW-User

That is walking on thin ice.
I'm also not responsible to make someone feel better about themselves at the expense of my health.
Personally, I would disengage.

Mudkip · 31-35, M

That honestly sounds like a headache. But personally, I'm straightforward and could care less on how people see me.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Sounds like way too much work to me.

twistedrope · 26-30, M

Friendship and conversation is about being your genuine true selves. If this persons genuine true self is to confront you on everything you have to say then, screw em c: You should be able to be who you are and be validated for it.

It's an important understated lesson. Someone I know 20 years my senior does not understand this simple truth. I do NOT interact with them outside work pleasantries or business. Too toxic.

Musicman · 61-69, MVIP

As much as I hate to say this, but sometimes the effort isn't worth the extremely little reward we get in return. ☹️

BigGuy2 · 31-35, M

👍👍👍 the reason i gave, is it a possibility 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

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