krissychick · 36-40, F
Marriage is so hard. 9 year anniversary tomorrow and we’re doing nothing- we are like you guys- well, I didn’t cheat but he has definitely gotten distant. Even when I ask to talk or do something together, he doesn’t want to. I’m sorry you experienced that though, I can’t imagine!! 💙
TheArmyWife · 26-30, F
YaBaas · 41-45, M
@TheArmyWife Yep, she had to. She gave me her phone to read a joke and accidentally opened the wrong chat.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@Moria810 I have the same situation with my wife, we don't talk, we don't do things together, we only have sex once every couple of months. I feel like a handyman that gets laid once in a while if I complain enough. I do have a few friends that I can talk to so I have some kind of outlet but it is difficult feeling alone even when she is sitting right there but still doesn't have time for me.
SW-User
Maybe focus on yourself for awhile, rediscovering the individual parts of yourself and things that make you happy. Then you might be in a better place to evaluate your marriage.