I Am Lonely

I don’t get sad over boys, I get sad because of how the situation always turns out. That guy didn’t like me? Fine...but...that’s what ALWAYS happens. And then I’m back to square one. I like a guy, guy has a gf OR if he doesn’t, he just isn’t interested and then I’m sad for a day and then I get over it and then the cycle repeats itself. It’s exhausting. I’m just very VERY unlucky with guys and romantic relationships :-) I Already know 100% how these things go for me. It’s just what happens. I could predict anything negative about my love life at this point and it would come true. I’m losing hope but at least I’m not losing myself.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

Then build up your worth of self, plus your self-love.
True first love- is self love, it is the soil for love to grow.
How you be in you, that is at-home-in-you. Then your foundation is set, you then validate and complete you. No need to seek for someone else to fill you. People for the most ADD to us, they can never fill empty, needy person.

Long-term relationships fail allot as each tends to trigger the others life insecurities. YES, when the lust is depleted, the real communication begins, like "do you get along" do they get on your nerves, be annoying.

Who you are is love, your happiness will come from you, within. Never look for happy in, people, money, fame, work, property (children )

You are the key - not them. ( sharing life, to share is great but not all will be value )

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@SoFine thank you for this🙏🏽

Yoroshii · F

Its better to know instantly than wasting a long time on the relationship

Prisoner69 · 26-30, M

Doesn't it apply to most women? 🤔

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Prisoner69 I dunno. maybe, maybe not. Maybe I’m just whining and sounding dumb as fuck. I’m just in my thoughts right now, over thinking things like I usually do.

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