I Have Been Extremely Lonely For Far Too Long

It's been way too long since I've had a gf. I don't care who you are that you need that special someone to spend uou lonely night. Just hope to find that person soon. I'm not into the bar scene anymore but not sure how I should go about finding that person!

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Starstuff · F

Is it really that hard?
Just talk to some women.
They say like attracts like.
Be what you are looking for and ye shall find it.....

McShay1978 · 41-45, M

@Starstuff it's a toss up. I'm a bit shy so that's my downside. Have a great sense of humor and like to make people smile and laugh
Got to get over that shyness

Starstuff · F

@McShay1978 me and my partner are both hesitant in crowds.
We did something different the day we met.
We both took a particular risk and it’s been really great.
Take a risk.

McShay1978 · 41-45, M

@Starstuff well, I'll be honest. I'm insecure bc of my RA. Since I got this condition, I'm afarid to talk to females. This condition is out of my hand. Friends say that if they judge you bc of it, they aren't for you.
Once I get past my shyness, I'm so outgoing.

Starstuff · F

@McShay1978 like attracts like.
Whose to say the other person hasn’t got similar issues and feels equally insecure?
Love yourself first. Accept yourself.
Sound cliche.
But if you really practise it. appreciate yourself. Don’t judge yourself and give yourself a break.
It’s ok.
Accept you. When you think others will judge you
At that moment tell youself. It’s ok. You are beautiful just the way you are. Say it out loud to You.

Those same things you don’t accept In you maybe things you don’t like in others.
You know deep down you deserve love.
If you deserve it then others like you are equally beautiful and deserving of love.
Give them a chance.

McShay1978 · 41-45, M

@Starstuff those words just put tear in my eye. I know I shouldn't be like that. Would do anything for anyone. I'll dropped what I'm doing to help that person out! I know I need to love myself. I do to a point but just hate I have this. Thank you for the kind and sweet words. I'm always helping others but never ask for help. Sometime I believe I should. Once again, thank you

Starstuff · F

@McShay1978 🤗

McShay1978 · 41-45, M

@Starstuff I'll be honest it's a male thing. Try not to show a weakness but we all have a flaws. Like you I'm caring and loving but I need to just be myself.

Starstuff · F

@McShay1978 exactly when you are yourself and you feel the fear the doubt creep up it’s at that moment Talk to you as if you were standing in front of you.
Breath through it. Just say I love you just the way you are.

McShay1978 · 41-45, M

@Starstuff would do anything to have that woman touch. I know that not all ladies will care bout my condition. As long as I'm loving caring and sweet. Would do what I can and thanks again for the sweet words