Have you ever had a stalker?
I've had a few, both online and irl.
When I was around 14, my "ex" stalked me after I "broke up", he punched me in the face so I bled, and threatened me multiple times. He waited for me outside of a friends house, and then followed me when I walked past him, pulled out a knife and tried to cut my hair off - cut my finger cause I covered my hair - so that no other guy would want me. He threatened to end me, and tried to stab me saying that I was going to die.
I also had one that was in my class when I was 17, he followed me home, showed up uninvited outside my grandmas house, just standing there asking me to come outside, after I already told him (20 min before) that I wouldn't meet him, he threatened me, tried to fight my friends, and it didn't stop until I lost my freaking mind on the bus and screamed at him to leave me alone (he was following me - after I several times told him to turn around and stop). It didn't stop, but instead of stalking me, he turned to hating on me, talking down to me in-front of people and so on^^
I had another stalker when I was 17-18, online, I still have no idea who it was, but he kept adding me on msn from different profiles, threatened me, and told me he would find me and what he would do to me. I'm not sure how many times I blocked this guy, and he just kept coming back somehow (even emailed me).
When I was 23, I had a guy stalk me from a dating app, he found my social media, and added me, I accepted at first, and he got extremely weird, so I deleted him. On the dating app, I could see that he had circled around where I lived several times. He kept messaging me for almost a year, asking to meet, telling me that he wasn't a rapist or stalker, and that I was just paranoid (I never claimed he was). He found out where I worked, and eventually drove around at the time I was walking to work, so I saw him. He asked me again to meet - now that I had seen him - I still said no, so he called me fat (i was underweight🥹), he came to my work a few times after that - I just ignored him.
When I was around 25-26, a guy followed me on insta, and would dm me, telling me what I was wearing, and where he had seen me, but I never saw him^^
My ex stalked me after I broke up with him. He threatened to ruin my life, but he also sent me messages just telling me where I was, what I was doing, who I was with and so on, without me seeing him, so I constantly felt watched. He sent people to spy on me, one guy even walked into my apartment, pretending that he had the wrong number, and 5 seconds later I got a message about who I was with and what I was doing. Every time I blocked him, he came back somehow, he also sent me an email telling me how stupid I was for blocking him. One time I fell asleep while watching tv, I told him the next day that I fell asleep (cause he had texted me), and he texted back saying "since when do you sleep with the lights on?". He took a job in google, and one time texted me asking me why I was looking for a lawyer (nobody knew that I was looking), I asked him how he knew that, and he said "google knows everything". He hacked my accounts, and is the reason I stopped using my google account. He also made up stories to get a reaction from me - saying he was in the hospital, that he had been in a car crash.. It really didn't stop until I got married, but he also hacked my fb a few years ago 🥹 I feel like he's moved on now tho, thankfully 🙌🏼
I've also been followed several times by strangers - which is almost worse..
When I was around 14, my "ex" stalked me after I "broke up", he punched me in the face so I bled, and threatened me multiple times. He waited for me outside of a friends house, and then followed me when I walked past him, pulled out a knife and tried to cut my hair off - cut my finger cause I covered my hair - so that no other guy would want me. He threatened to end me, and tried to stab me saying that I was going to die.
I also had one that was in my class when I was 17, he followed me home, showed up uninvited outside my grandmas house, just standing there asking me to come outside, after I already told him (20 min before) that I wouldn't meet him, he threatened me, tried to fight my friends, and it didn't stop until I lost my freaking mind on the bus and screamed at him to leave me alone (he was following me - after I several times told him to turn around and stop). It didn't stop, but instead of stalking me, he turned to hating on me, talking down to me in-front of people and so on^^
I had another stalker when I was 17-18, online, I still have no idea who it was, but he kept adding me on msn from different profiles, threatened me, and told me he would find me and what he would do to me. I'm not sure how many times I blocked this guy, and he just kept coming back somehow (even emailed me).
When I was 23, I had a guy stalk me from a dating app, he found my social media, and added me, I accepted at first, and he got extremely weird, so I deleted him. On the dating app, I could see that he had circled around where I lived several times. He kept messaging me for almost a year, asking to meet, telling me that he wasn't a rapist or stalker, and that I was just paranoid (I never claimed he was). He found out where I worked, and eventually drove around at the time I was walking to work, so I saw him. He asked me again to meet - now that I had seen him - I still said no, so he called me fat (i was underweight🥹), he came to my work a few times after that - I just ignored him.
When I was around 25-26, a guy followed me on insta, and would dm me, telling me what I was wearing, and where he had seen me, but I never saw him^^
My ex stalked me after I broke up with him. He threatened to ruin my life, but he also sent me messages just telling me where I was, what I was doing, who I was with and so on, without me seeing him, so I constantly felt watched. He sent people to spy on me, one guy even walked into my apartment, pretending that he had the wrong number, and 5 seconds later I got a message about who I was with and what I was doing. Every time I blocked him, he came back somehow, he also sent me an email telling me how stupid I was for blocking him. One time I fell asleep while watching tv, I told him the next day that I fell asleep (cause he had texted me), and he texted back saying "since when do you sleep with the lights on?". He took a job in google, and one time texted me asking me why I was looking for a lawyer (nobody knew that I was looking), I asked him how he knew that, and he said "google knows everything". He hacked my accounts, and is the reason I stopped using my google account. He also made up stories to get a reaction from me - saying he was in the hospital, that he had been in a car crash.. It really didn't stop until I got married, but he also hacked my fb a few years ago 🥹 I feel like he's moved on now tho, thankfully 🙌🏼
I've also been followed several times by strangers - which is almost worse..
