What is the nastiest/meanest thing you've ever said to someone else?

I cut down this couple at my parents church years ago. This was when I was first starting to transition so we are going several years back. I got dragged along by my parents to some fundraising event at the church they go to. Got told by the woman in the couple that changing my body into something it is not is a sin blah blah blah. Basically they were saying I was a shameful creature. Well this couple is known for having fertility issues and she was undergoing various surgeries to have a baby. I threw her own words back at her and made her cry. I told her that she's changing her body around to have a baby and that's sinful because your body is not naturally able to have children. If it's not natural it must be a sin right? I also said it's a waste of money and resources to force your body to have something you obviously can't have. I added in it must not be god's will for you to be a mother huh.

Made her cry and her husband looked like he wanted to smack the crap out of me by the way he just glared at me after. You want to be rude and come for me I will go for the attack. I am not known for my kindness you know. Needless to say I was never invited back by the church or my parents. They didn't speak to me for awhile because I had brought them shame in front of their friends. Oh well

Yes, I can be downright nasty does this surprise you?

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

I will be the first (although reluctantly) one to acknowledge that I am somewhat of a sheltered soul so I don't really personally understand this compulsion to transition into an altered state. But, it sounds like you wanted immediate and unconditional acceptance from "them" and when you didn't get it you decided to present a convoluted counterargument that the woman was altering her body... which is quite a stretch. So... you were not able to give them what you wanted them to give to you and you want to present them as the villains.

I'm not buying it. You were in their church. If you didn't want to go, you should have had the guts not to go by explaining that to your parents. But, you did go and then when you did not get the reception you desired you are suggesting you were some kind of hero for speaking your mind with faulty logic. That's not heroic.

And, your "oh well" arrogance is hardly noble. Perhaps you should start with trying to alter your attitude by seeking God's word.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul what if I told you I am a god

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella What if I confirmed you are crazy... clinically speaking.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul No darling I have powers you could only dream of. Lets just say those who cross me tend to fall apart in some way later on

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella No, no, no sweetie. Let's just say that those who make threats on the Internet always self-destruct. It just always happens... and sooner rather than later.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul No my powers are not internet based they are real I swear of it. I'm not going to self destruct that's impossible

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella It's already started... with your story of disingenuousness and now with your refusal to embrace self-awareness.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul i am self aware i know who i am very well better than most

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella It doesn't seem like it based on your story, your denials, and your self-centre view of the world. I would like to see you thrive by growing up a bit and stop looking to fight everyone who doesn't agree with each of your whims.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul Meh we are all the center of our own universes. So what if some people recognize that more than others. I don't fight everyone I fight when I feel I need to

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella And, based on your story, you feel like you need to literally at the drop of a hat.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@MarkPaul sometimes i do that was one of those moments

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MizzBella Well, that's the point isn't it? You should have exercised some self-control then and you should exercise the self-awareness now to realize you were in the wrong then and you are in the wrong now.

I'm just trying to help you with a realistic way to interpret your story.