Lmao y'know..red pill guys and bad therapists (all the ones I have encountered, sadly) have a lot in common.
They think, "All I need to do is give this girl a lil pep talk to get what I want...tell her she is THAT GIRL...tell her to stand up for herself and walk away from bad things."
This may sound a little something like: "Why doesn't BRITT do something for BRITT today? Mrrrr"...complete with jutted out lip, tilted head, and patronizing tone.
Knowing full well that I just cleaned my house, got my car detailed, worked towards my purpose, stayed clear of my abusive family that day, did my hair and makeup, read a good book and went on a walk that day ALREADY...
The entire time, they underestimate me.
Because when I am not being SERVED by something, I leave...and WHEN I leave, I sometimes tell them about themselves.
They get all butt hurt: "You need to work on running away, bc you always run from conflict."
What they NEVER SEEM TO FATHOM is that, by leaving what does not SERVE me, I am implementing advice that they both already gave me, and that I already KNEW.
And by not caring to listen to my explanation about WHY they are the sickness and not the cure, they are furthering the idea that my opinion doesn't matter. 🤣🤣🤣
I never used to BE a feminist who believed that men get paid more just by virtue of being men, etc....I was a feminist who thought: let's keep the vote, let's uplift female voices, etc, while allowing men their voices too. Let's have living wages and respect for ALL.
But MAN are we in a patriarchy. If a guy tells me he wants to sleep with me, which is the impetus behind this post btw, and I say no..then he goes on to say that he wants to be FWB with me..I don't even dignify that with an answer and take a nap....
...then accuses me jealously of hanging out with his brother bc his brother makes him the third set of brothers who, for some reason, want to sleep with me..and I say no to THAT...
And I further explain that I am far more than the body I am in, and will not demean myself by treating it with disdain...and he says that I need to "work on running away from hard things"...
And I tell him peace, this is not my scene..and he says that no, it is not his..lmaoooo boyieeee if it MAKES YA FEEL BETTER, you had the last word and walked away first 🤣🤣🤣
And uh..if you are a hard THING..i'm sorry bout ya..maybe work on making it softer, bc I will not be WORKING on that FOR you, beloved.
This may sound a little something like: "Why doesn't BRITT do something for BRITT today? Mrrrr"...complete with jutted out lip, tilted head, and patronizing tone.
Knowing full well that I just cleaned my house, got my car detailed, worked towards my purpose, stayed clear of my abusive family that day, did my hair and makeup, read a good book and went on a walk that day ALREADY...
The entire time, they underestimate me.
Because when I am not being SERVED by something, I leave...and WHEN I leave, I sometimes tell them about themselves.
They get all butt hurt: "You need to work on running away, bc you always run from conflict."
What they NEVER SEEM TO FATHOM is that, by leaving what does not SERVE me, I am implementing advice that they both already gave me, and that I already KNEW.
And by not caring to listen to my explanation about WHY they are the sickness and not the cure, they are furthering the idea that my opinion doesn't matter. 🤣🤣🤣
I never used to BE a feminist who believed that men get paid more just by virtue of being men, etc....I was a feminist who thought: let's keep the vote, let's uplift female voices, etc, while allowing men their voices too. Let's have living wages and respect for ALL.
But MAN are we in a patriarchy. If a guy tells me he wants to sleep with me, which is the impetus behind this post btw, and I say no..then he goes on to say that he wants to be FWB with me..I don't even dignify that with an answer and take a nap....
...then accuses me jealously of hanging out with his brother bc his brother makes him the third set of brothers who, for some reason, want to sleep with me..and I say no to THAT...
And I further explain that I am far more than the body I am in, and will not demean myself by treating it with disdain...and he says that I need to "work on running away from hard things"...
And I tell him peace, this is not my scene..and he says that no, it is not his..lmaoooo boyieeee if it MAKES YA FEEL BETTER, you had the last word and walked away first 🤣🤣🤣
And uh..if you are a hard THING..i'm sorry bout ya..maybe work on making it softer, bc I will not be WORKING on that FOR you, beloved.
41-45, F
