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What is Something That You have Outgrown?

People, situations, clothing....tell me what you have outgrown.
sunriselover · M Best Comment
I outgrown the.need to argue. But to look for the need to find reconciliation. Mend relationships

I don’t think you can discard people. They remain of value and worth.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@sunriselover i need to take some lessons from you.

The need to be seen only with makeup. I'm very plain without my makeup, but now, knowing who I am and that I feel beautiful inside, regardless, is more important to me than the outside, but that's not to say good hygiene is not important because it is, but you get the gist. I don't even put my eyebrows on anymore unless I just feel like it or want to, but other than that, I could care less. It just doesn't matter. My face is clean, I'm clean, I'm always kind to people that I meet or anywhere I go and try to help people, but it doesn't matter if I have eyebrows or not. Hahaha and you know what, they don't treat me any differently. They don't even seem to notice or care. Hahaha I thought that was really funny. I wasn't even expecting that reaction from people, but nobody even seems to notice or says a thing about me not having makeup on. I'm not ugly but I'm very plain and I enjoy the freedom of that, just knowing that that's okay. What matters most to me, and always has, is the heart, what's on the inside.

There was a boy in school who everybody thought was ugly, but when I hung out with him, I tell you he was the most beautiful person in the world to me. He had the sweetest heart and I loved him so much. I would have married him, but somebody else stole his heart even before I had a chance. Haha
Blondily · F
Annoying people
Noisy kids
Snoopy neighbors
The latest fashions
Eating strictly vegetarian
Inlaws lol
Blondily · F
@Degbeme Thats the secret weapon she uses to put you back in your place. lol
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Blondily we have to keep DEG. who would we chase around?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@akindheart Easy now, I old.
📝 long list….

I’ve outgrown certain people. It’s not their fault, or mine. People change.

Clothes? Definitely… from size 8 to size 10/12 😅

Situations. There are situations that though still enjoyable, even exciting, have lost its appeal to me.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@CookieCrumbs people do change, and you do outgrow them, and it really is no ones fault
@MrGoodbar
You don’t “fit” anymore. It happens.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@CookieCrumbs so true and that can be something very hard to deal with because you want to blame someone but deep down you know you can't blame anyone
Drama.
Backstabbers.
Gossip.
Spreading discord.
Useless protests.
Unsupportive friends.
People who only take.
All of the above I do not allow as I become older and wiser.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion that is a very good list C. very good indeed. i had to let go of backstabbers too.
@akindheart We are wiser now, my friend. Thank you. I hope all is well with you.
(///_-) its not a phase mom!!!!
@Pressure
in a roller coaster
@mindstruggle oh 👀
@Pressure
👀
SW-User
Certain people
Clothes
Situations
Many things
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User what goes first?
SW-User
@akindheart no particular order
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
Old guilts.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@RuyLopez we can only look forward right?
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
@akindheart Yes, and at some point you have to decide if the scales have balanced out or that they never will. Either way there comes a point to drop the weight from your shoulders and experience the freedom that comes with that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@RuyLopez absolutely. there is peace in your post right there.
Magenta · F
Drama queens and childish drama. *yawn*
Those who perpetuate the "victim" mentality.
Players / Users.
Partying.
Holidays.
Most of social media.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Magenta you have an excellent answer like Poetry. i am sure lessened my time on here
Torsten · 36-40, M
i outgrew people a very long time ago. I have a select few in my life and keep it that way. I cant deal with most people anymore. they just annoy me
Magenta · F
@Torsten Do you think being on social media has contributed to that?
meggie · F
Parties
Christmas
Capital cities
Looking after kids
Travelling on coaches
Soaking for ages in the bathtub
akindheart · 61-69, F
@meggie wait...you are going to give up soaking in the tub?
meggie · F
@akindheart yeah. Don't enjoy it anymore. Like a good shower instead.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
I have outgrown my belt. It no longer has holes for the buckle! 😕😄
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WandererTony uh oh. time for a new belt.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@akindheart or to stop binging 😃
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WandererTony oh yeah...the chocolate is almost gone here so i "borrowed" a reese cup from my brother's stash...lol
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Fashion don’t know why I wasted money on trying to look cool and not just comfy
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Barny52 well i will never give up my high heels. as soon as i am out of this aircast, on they go.
Dusty101 · F
The stroller my mom used to push me about! Tight squeeze now!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Dusty101 LOL. got a cat you can put in it?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Beavis and Butt-head.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@StevetheSleeve are they even around?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@akindheart They recently did a reboot. But meh
akindheart · 61-69, F
@StevetheSleeve it ran its course. i get it. like Seinfeld or Friends.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Being bullied. If I see it happening I say something.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@AlchemyFox good for you. never let someone put power over anyone.
SilkenHippie · 51-55, F
baby clothes, some how I don't fit them anymore
Trying to save people
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Pressure we only have control of ourselves, right?
Thodsis · 51-55, M
Giving the slightest toss about personality assessments based on possessions.

Although it is amusing to laugh at rich people and those who fleece them. :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Thodsis i live in one of the richest zipcodes in America. they discard without a thought.
Thodsis · 51-55, M
@akindheart Are you being a Womble?

I hope so. :)
eMortal · M
My p3nis obviously. It used to be bigger than me, making all the major decisions etc. I can now safely say I think of my own!!! 👍😀
akindheart · 61-69, F
@eMortal LOL you will be ruled by the head on your shoulders right?
eMortal · M
@akindheart haha right, the only smart head.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
The Simpsons. It's not in the slightest funny to me anymore.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Entwistle i think every show runs its course. the Simpson's are no longer relative
@akindheart Entwistle is British. He probably doesn't know what I'm talking about. 🤣

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Entwistle · 56-60, M
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays I know full well what you are talking about. The O.J Simpson case.
I recall seeing it on the News.
A need to “save the world” or “contribute something greater” or be “important.”
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Colonelmustardseed very good point. i had to let go of trying to be right.
@akindheart That one too. It’s a tough one, though. 😅
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Colonelmustardseed very true. i have an alcoholic brother who I have saved several times from death. i really struggle with that one.
Some parts of who I used to be, mostly for the better.
Chasing my tail.
Jemimapuddleduck · 31-35, F
My baby teeth. 🪥
Tracos · 51-55, M
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