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What is Something That You have Outgrown?

People, situations, clothing....tell me what you have outgrown.
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I outgrown the.need to argue. But to look for the need to find reconciliation. Mend relationships

I don’t think you can discard people. They remain of value and worth.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User i need to take some lessons from you.

The need to be seen only with makeup. I'm very plain without my makeup, but now, knowing who I am and that I feel beautiful inside, regardless, is more important to me than the outside, but that's not to say good hygiene is not important because it is, but you get the gist. I don't even put my eyebrows on anymore unless I just feel like it or want to, but other than that, I could care less. It just doesn't matter. My face is clean, I'm clean, I'm always kind to people that I meet or anywhere I go and try to help people, but it doesn't matter if I have eyebrows or not. Hahaha and you know what, they don't treat me any differently. They don't even seem to notice or care. Hahaha I thought that was really funny. I wasn't even expecting that reaction from people, but nobody even seems to notice or says a thing about me not having makeup on. I'm not ugly but I'm very plain and I enjoy the freedom of that, just knowing that that's okay. What matters most to me, and always has, is the heart, what's on the inside.

There was a boy in school who everybody thought was ugly, but when I hung out with him, I tell you he was the most beautiful person in the world to me. He had the sweetest heart and I loved him so much. I would have married him, but somebody else stole his heart even before I had a chance. Haha
📝 long list….

I’ve outgrown certain people. It’s not their fault, or mine. People change.

Clothes? Definitely… from size 8 to size 10/12 😅

Situations. There are situations that though still enjoyable, even exciting, have lost its appeal to me.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@CookieCrumbs people do change, and you do outgrow them, and it really is no ones fault
@MrGoodbar
You don’t “fit” anymore. It happens.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@CookieCrumbs so true and that can be something very hard to deal with because you want to blame someone but deep down you know you can't blame anyone
Blondily · F
Annoying people
Noisy kids
Snoopy neighbors
The latest fashions
Eating strictly vegetarian
Inlaws lol
Blondily · F
@Degbeme Thats the secret weapon she uses to put you back in your place. lol
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Blondily we have to keep DEG. who would we chase around?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@akindheart Easy now, I old.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
(///_-) its not a phase mom!!!!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Pressure
in a roller coaster
@mindstruggle oh 👀
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Pressure
👀
SW-User
Certain people
Clothes
Situations
Many things
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User what goes first?
SW-User
@akindheart no particular order
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
Old guilts.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@RuyLopez we can only look forward right?
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
@akindheart Yes, and at some point you have to decide if the scales have balanced out or that they never will. Either way there comes a point to drop the weight from your shoulders and experience the freedom that comes with that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@RuyLopez absolutely. there is peace in your post right there.
Drama.
Backstabbers.
Gossip.
Spreading discord.
Useless protests.
Unsupportive friends.
People who only take.
All of the above I do not allow as I become older and wiser.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion that is a very good list C. very good indeed. i had to let go of backstabbers too.
@akindheart We are wiser now, my friend. Thank you. I hope all is well with you.
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meggie · F
Parties
Christmas
Capital cities
Looking after kids
Travelling on coaches
Soaking for ages in the bathtub
akindheart · 61-69, F
@meggie wait...you are going to give up soaking in the tub?
meggie · F
@akindheart yeah. Don't enjoy it anymore. Like a good shower instead.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
I have outgrown my belt. It no longer has holes for the buckle! 😕😄
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WandererTony uh oh. time for a new belt.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@akindheart or to stop binging 😃
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WandererTony oh yeah...the chocolate is almost gone here so i "borrowed" a reese cup from my brother's stash...lol
Torsten · 36-40, M
i outgrew people a very long time ago. I have a select few in my life and keep it that way. I cant deal with most people anymore. they just annoy me
Magenta · F
@Torsten Do you think being on social media has contributed to that?
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Fashion don’t know why I wasted money on trying to look cool and not just comfy
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Barny52 well i will never give up my high heels. as soon as i am out of this aircast, on they go.
Dusty101 · F
The stroller my mom used to push me about! Tight squeeze now!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Dusty101 LOL. got a cat you can put in it?
Magenta · F
Drama queens and childish drama. *yawn*
Those who perpetuate the "victim" mentality.
Players / Users.
Partying.
Holidays.
Most of social media.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Magenta you have an excellent answer like Poetry. i am sure lessened my time on here
Trying to save people
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Pressure we only have control of ourselves, right?
ThickMadame · 51-55, F
baby clothes, some how I don't fit them anymore
A need to “save the world” or “contribute something greater” or be “important.”
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Colonelmustardseed very good point. i had to let go of trying to be right.
@akindheart That one too. It’s a tough one, though. 😅
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Colonelmustardseed very true. i have an alcoholic brother who I have saved several times from death. i really struggle with that one.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
The Simpsons. It's not in the slightest funny to me anymore.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Entwistle i think every show runs its course. the Simpson's are no longer relative
@akindheart Entwistle is British. He probably doesn't know what I'm talking about. 🤣

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Entwistle · 56-60, M
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays I know full well what you are talking about. The O.J Simpson case.
I recall seeing it on the News.
Thodsis · 51-55, M
Giving the slightest toss about personality assessments based on possessions.

Although it is amusing to laugh at rich people and those who fleece them. :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Thodsis i live in one of the richest zipcodes in America. they discard without a thought.
Thodsis · 51-55, M
@akindheart Are you being a Womble?

I hope so. :)
SW-User
Being bullied. If I see it happening I say something.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User good for you. never let someone put power over anyone.
Some parts of who I used to be, mostly for the better.
Tracos · 51-55, M
SW-User
My baby teeth. 🪥
Chasing my tail.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Beavis and Butt-head.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@StevetheSleeve are they even around?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@akindheart They recently did a reboot. But meh
akindheart · 61-69, F
@StevetheSleeve it ran its course. i get it. like Seinfeld or Friends.
eMortal · M
My p3nis obviously. It used to be bigger than me, making all the major decisions etc. I can now safely say I think of my own!!! 👍😀
akindheart · 61-69, F
@eMortal LOL you will be ruled by the head on your shoulders right?
eMortal · M
@akindheart haha right, the only smart head.

 
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