"If you don't want that people misuse your goodness, then you should not be afraid their bad opinion about you"

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ArtieKat · M

Does that actually mean anything in English?

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@ArtieKat Why not?

ArtieKat · M

@Queendragonfly You only have to read the garbage here, with no punctuation etc .

"If you don't want that people misuse your goodness, then you should not be afraid their bad opinion about you"

. Simple English: "If you don't want people to take advantage of you, you needn't worry about their opinion of you". Isn't that clearer to you?

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@ArtieKat Ah you are refering to OP and they're American or British?

Maybe they had a great teacher they just didn't care

Aami1 · 26-30, F

Yes, you have to be assertive, stand up for yourself and negotiate for what you want. Dont aim to be nice or a people pleaser. But if you have to, be selfish for a while to build up enough power that you can really help people.

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

I agree

bijouxbroussard · F

Yes, if I’m understanding the post, I definitely agree. If you don’t want people to take advantage of you, you have to occasionally say "no". Even if it means you’re less popular.

Somexyz · 36-40

@bijouxbroussard yes

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

I think so. I mostly ignore negative opinions anyway

SW-User

yes, if someone doesn't like you, it's very good sign you shouldn't want them to like you. wanting everyone to like you is inviting trouble into your life.

YoMomma ·

What about my bad opinions of them?

If you don't want people to misuse you then block their number 😅

SW-User

This really makes no sense

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