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What happened to you?

What happened to you?
What happened to your passion?
What happened to your passion to learn things?
What happened to your understanding?
What happened to your kindness?
you’re a new person, a fake person, I don’t even recognize you anymore.
You have changed, and not in a good way.
You have lost your excitement and that’s bad.
I knew you, you had that sparkling in your eyes. But now, every time i look at you, i just see nothing in you. Just pure tiredness, a person who gave up. You weren’t like that, never. Remember why you named yourself alvida? Because you knew, you could come over every issue in your life, that will ever occur. That’s what that name meant to you. Now, it’s just a username, you don’t even recognize it anymore. Do even play piano anymore? Do you have passion for violin? You’ve lost yourself…
Where are you, wheres your soul? Your values, your priorities and principles seem to be gone now. You are not the person i knew earlier. she was more consistent than you. she knew what she wanted, and always worked for it.

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in10RjFox · M

From a winner to a loser ..

Happens when you play the wrong game or the game wrongly.

Happens when you wish for something without pursuing

Happens when you take short cuts much against your wishes

Winners accomplish to win
Losers compete to win.

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@in10RjFox Not helpful.

in10RjFox · M

@LordShadowfire happens when you don't need any help..

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mehmeh · 26-30, F

@in10RjFox its good advice.

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playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox I don’t really understand what you mean?

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox please be respectful to each other guys.

Yes, your way of describing it is kind of true.

in10RjFox · M

@playingmybeautifulviolin like food for thoughts, I wrote some thoughts for introspection. What you are now is the result of what you were in the past. But your Old You is blaming the New You

So you need to check what in you made you, what you are today..

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox i would say; what happened to me made me the new me. Maybe the way I dealt with it was not okay.

in10RjFox · M

@playingmybeautifulviolin quite possible. We are often perplexed by how things turn out than expected. Instead of analysing it, we start acting in a frenzy to make it right and start to make more mistakes.

I have witnessed that when we hit on a fragile item, we instantly reach out to grab it, but in the process push it for it to fall and break.

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox such a beautiful way you just described it. I agree. We think we are doing a mistake while in a moment, but actually the mistake is us thinking wea re doing one. Never in the moment, never natural. Always tryna be a person others would like. That is the mistake.

in10RjFox · M

@playingmybeautifulviolin

Always tryna be a person others would like.

Perfect Perfect. Right from childhood we are somehow cultivated to please , satisfy, behave for others and we never get to know what pleases us. But great that you have come to a point of realisation, as experience is a bliss. We all have a choice to make a beginning anytime in life, and for me it happened at the age of 45 and for many it never happens. So just forget all and bring out the new you, and stop cursing yourself. Remember when we when a game early, luck has more role to play, but later it is experience and strategy that dominates, and we stop believing in luck.

p.s. did you flag this post.. why is there a warning that this conversation has been flagged.

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox especially my family is such a people pleaser family and that also shows in me. It affected me so much and i try to heal from it. I am in realization of what’s happening me but how to solve it is a big issue.

p.s. no, I didn’t do anything. Donno how that happened 🤷‍♀

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playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox thank you so much, i will try this ☺ and yes, i am undersge.

in10RjFox · M

@playingmybeautifulviolin just fake your age and get onto adult mode. Nothing wrong as long as you tread in life carefully. Start confronting life in your stride. Just get rid of all the protections / concessions. They were meant for the physical part and never for the intellectual part, as mind has no age. Only experience matters. So don't shun yourself from experiencing life, in the name of underage. Get to know everything, instead of being made to believe in everything, as the world will make you believe in things that are never there, and obstruct you from getting to know the truth forever.

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playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@in10RjFox im not sure with closing the protection mode, but i will sure try experiencing life a bit more.

in10RjFox · M

@LordShadowfire she is not going to get younger in life.. just like learning to drive a car early in life.. there are still many so called who have phobia for driving.

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@in10RjFox I don't care. What you are advising her to do is irresponsible.

in10RjFox · M

@LordShadowfire who cares whether you care or not ... and who are you to say anything about responsibility? What responsibility have you taken up in life, when you have lived an entire life irresponsibly ? Do you know what responsibility is, in the first place ?

So you just need to mind your business in public forums. If you have any advise to her, you should have offered it to her as a direct reply to the post. Butting into other's reply is by itself a cheap troll mentality. And I seriously don't know what your problem is when she herself has received the message quite clearly.

Hope you know that every human has the right to know. Anyone can go to libraries to read any book. Have you ever gone to libraries to check which books offer responsible advise and which books are irresponsible and you have taken steps to condemn the bad books ?

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@in10RjFox Well, you clearly care.You spent three paragraphs lecturing me.