@SW-User I do remember very well. But my entire life I have always been very empathetic to people and situations. I was 27 (not much older than 25) when I got married and my husband told me about the horrible childhood he lived through and I was very supportive
I'm not even 25 yet but I know emotional intelligence can be developed far younger but it's also an individual experience thing and not so much an age thing.
In all honesty, if it happened to me at that age, all I would have had to offer would have been useless pity but no reasonable solution for his unresolved trauma.
[c=4C0073]it's not the age, and it highly depends on the individual, .. this question cannot be answered without being some sort of prophet with divine powers[/c]