It’s crazy how, just the fact that I exist really troubles some folks.
Like I ain’t have to do shit or anything. Wonder what that’s like for them.
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Scribbles · 36-40, F
Are people creating drama again?
Some of us like the fact that you exist. I like that you are here. You're one of the few people I like on here and enjoy reading posts and talking to. I love your poetry, your fondness for music. I love your advocacy for people that are struggling, your bravery and openness in the face of your own struggles, and your intrinsic desire to be kind and do good. That speaks alot to your character.
Some people try to tie a person's sole worth as a human down to what they dislike about a person, their biases, the flaws they see, the mis-steps, bad experience or experiences, miscommunications and a person's struggles. They may make public confrontations, call names, gossip with others, say stuff behind your back etc. Maybe they have good intentions, maybe they don't. Maybe they feel hurt, or maybe they just want to see someone else feel hurt. They won't let go, because they believe the best thing to do is to keep pushing someone down, or use anger or judgement as a coping mechanism rather then trying to resolve a thing or create positive growth, create strength for themselves and others and peace and learning. Sometimes the things that blow up are the most minor things, and sometimes they are medium sized things, and sometimes they are big things. But when they become polarized, and blows up publicly, it hurts everyone
No matter what did happen, or did not happen, All one can do is try to foster safety, peace, and love over and over and over and over again.
I see so much good in you. and find you worth knowing. I also know that whatever happened, whatever happened in the past, and I don't need to know it....because I know you strive to be a good person and grow. You empathize and try to fix any mistakes you make. That's enough for me.
I've gotten to know alot of very different people, and you are not a horrible person. You are a good person. Keep being that person.
There are other people who see that too, and will see you for all you are. And that's a good thing.
Some of us like the fact that you exist. I like that you are here. You're one of the few people I like on here and enjoy reading posts and talking to. I love your poetry, your fondness for music. I love your advocacy for people that are struggling, your bravery and openness in the face of your own struggles, and your intrinsic desire to be kind and do good. That speaks alot to your character.
Some people try to tie a person's sole worth as a human down to what they dislike about a person, their biases, the flaws they see, the mis-steps, bad experience or experiences, miscommunications and a person's struggles. They may make public confrontations, call names, gossip with others, say stuff behind your back etc. Maybe they have good intentions, maybe they don't. Maybe they feel hurt, or maybe they just want to see someone else feel hurt. They won't let go, because they believe the best thing to do is to keep pushing someone down, or use anger or judgement as a coping mechanism rather then trying to resolve a thing or create positive growth, create strength for themselves and others and peace and learning. Sometimes the things that blow up are the most minor things, and sometimes they are medium sized things, and sometimes they are big things. But when they become polarized, and blows up publicly, it hurts everyone
No matter what did happen, or did not happen, All one can do is try to foster safety, peace, and love over and over and over and over again.
I see so much good in you. and find you worth knowing. I also know that whatever happened, whatever happened in the past, and I don't need to know it....because I know you strive to be a good person and grow. You empathize and try to fix any mistakes you make. That's enough for me.
I've gotten to know alot of very different people, and you are not a horrible person. You are a good person. Keep being that person.
There are other people who see that too, and will see you for all you are. And that's a good thing.
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Scribbles · 36-40, F
@JustGoneNow That's understandable.
I agree with your friend, I don't think it would help. It would just stir up a storm.
I know it's hard, but try not to think about what one can't change, and also try to ignore them.
Don't worry, you are loved. That is what matters. 💜🤗
If you ever need reminding, go find your wife, or those of us here that are still your friends, ok?
I agree with your friend, I don't think it would help. It would just stir up a storm.
I know it's hard, but try not to think about what one can't change, and also try to ignore them.
Don't worry, you are loved. That is what matters. 💜🤗
If you ever need reminding, go find your wife, or those of us here that are still your friends, ok?
QueenOfTheNerds · 46-50, F
@QueenOfTheNerds you do matter. Love you. 🖤🤗
🤗 Luv ya too, Butterfly 🦋 💙@JustGoneNow
SarithBorn · 22-25, M
@SarithBorn that’s funny.
@Carla Part of me wants to post the whole PM thread. I got kind of upset a couple nights ago and screen shotted all eleven pages in 24 pics. Covering up her and I’s more personal stuff and her username of course for TOS, but I talked to my best friend here and offered for her to read it and tell me what she thinks I should do. And she said without even reading (because she says she doesn’t need to and never did… she already knows who I am and the burden of proof would be on them to prove I’m not,) she can tell me what she thinks I should do. She says nothing. She said you are starting a storm with no winners. Everyone who truly knows me shouldn’t need proof and to anyone that this should matter, nothing I post will make a difference to them. She says it’s an exercise in futility. I respect her opinion more than anything, so I’m not posting anything. But the whole thing does really make me sad.
@Carla oh well. 🖤🤗
bijouxbroussard · F
@bijouxbroussard Ty. ily, my friend. 🖤🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow I am sorry you lost her 💖
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow I understand that 💖
SW-User
How does this come about? Who are these fuckers of whom you speak?
