In every situation. You can’t change the circumstances always, you can’t change your emotions, you can only partially control your thoughts but you can always choose how you act.
That's such an important truth. No matter what life throws at us, whether it's a bad performance review or a surprise injury that ends our dancing career, we always have control over how we respond. I've seen dancers completely shattered when they got injured and couldn't perform anymore. But the ones who chose to keep moving forward, even if it meant changing careers, they're the strongest.
@Birdbox1986 I‘m sorry that you’re in that situation. I hope the best for you. And I mean that for example it’s up to you how you spend your money, you can go and buy thousands of dollars worth of sweets because they taste nice.