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Am I the only one ? Btw sorry I keep asking this question.

So I’m turning 31 this year and I never had a bf, still living with my parents & I’m still a virgin

Sometimes after I get out of work I go shopping by myself & sometimes with one of my coworker. She doesn’t have a car & i sometimes take her to Walmart for groceries and we sometimes go shopping.

I have my own car it’s an 2018 Audi a3 and I have a job working at McDonald’s lol
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Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Girl me too I'm a 50 year old virgin
User123455 · 26-30
@Prettybratbi1tch because I know
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@User123455 if you know that how come you don't know how to get out of your situation?
User123455 · 26-30
@Prettybratbi1tch idk because I’m just a quiet shy person
My brother didnt get a girlfriend or married until his late 40's.

My other brother has never had a girlfriend that i know of.....so much so that my mum asked him if he was gay😂

I never married.

Had a family tho, but single now.

Everything has a time and a place. A season, so to speak.

And believe me, a lot of types of sex arent that great, partners arent everything.
In fact.... often these two very things can cause irreparable damage to people.

There are a few things people on their death beds often regret, and one of the big ones is:
- never truly being themsleves.

There's nothing wrong with your life's path. Some people do some things, some people do others🤷‍♀

Some people look like they have it all together, but in truth, they are lonely or have no inner compass.

Its ok to be who you are and take life at your own pace🤗
GoFish ·
you're not the only one but it's more rare these days than not
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
Why does it say 26-30?
AtlasScar · 31-35, MNew
I don’t think you’re the only one. But I hope you find a good group of people that put you in the direction you want to follow.
User123455 · 26-30
@AtlasScar wait what do you mean by this?
AtlasScar · 31-35, MNew
@User123455 Messaged you if you would like to reply there.
User123455 · 26-30
There are some cultures where it's normal to never leave home or to move in with the family once you get married even. It's usually American people who put such an emphasis on the fact that people "need" to force themselves out into the world especially if and when they're not really ready.

There's NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and don't let anyone ever make you feel like there is. It can sometimes take a while to find someone who is your person and that's ok. It's also ok if it doesn't ever happen. You get to choose the path that is best for yourself.

It sounds like you actually go out even if it isn't much, you have gainful employment and someone you interact with. If and when you're ready to do that with others it's entirely your choice. Places like here are a start but at least you actually go out and you interact. You do what is safe, familiar and comfortable for you and I don't really see the bad in that just because it isn't the same as everyone else here. Most here HAVE been out in the world interacting and they're not exactly socially adept either so I wouldn't say they're the gold standard for anything. Do what you like when you like with whom you like. It's your life.

Sorry this was long. I'm super verbose 🤷🏾
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Seems you're starting your life a bit late. That's okay, I think. Especially when things are getting more expensive.

I didn't move out from my parents until I was 29 and I still don't drive
User123455 · 26-30
@caPnAhab is that bad
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
@User123455 I don't think so. We move at our own pace
User123455 · 26-30
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@jshm2 man, sometimes you are unfeelingly cruel.🙄
twistedrope · 26-30, M
No I don't work at McDonalds. No I don't particularly care about my sexual status. My partner and I discussed it. It's rude whoever says anything negative about the virgin traot and I'm kind to whoever just lets it be. I just state I'm not interested to talk about it and tell people whp don't drop it. "I'm not comfortable and you're really starting to make me angry." then just leave and start recording. Its habit now from my job with poor staff.

 
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