Am I the only one ? Btw sorry I keep asking this question.

So I’m turning 31 this year and I never had a bf, still living with my parents & I’m still a virgin

Sometimes after I get out of work I go shopping by myself & sometimes with one of my coworker. She doesn’t have a car & i sometimes take her to Walmart for groceries and we sometimes go shopping.

I have my own car it’s an 2018 Audi a3 and I have a job working at McDonald’s lol

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DancingStarGoddess ·

There are some cultures where it's normal to never leave home or to move in with the family once you get married even. It's usually American people who put such an emphasis on the fact that people "need" to force themselves out into the world especially if and when they're not really ready.

There's NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and don't let anyone ever make you feel like there is. It can sometimes take a while to find someone who is your person and that's ok. It's also ok if it doesn't ever happen. You get to choose the path that is best for yourself.

It sounds like you actually go out even if it isn't much, you have gainful employment and someone you interact with. If and when you're ready to do that with others it's entirely your choice. Places like here are a start but at least you actually go out and you interact. You do what is safe, familiar and comfortable for you and I don't really see the bad in that just because it isn't the same as everyone else here. Most here HAVE been out in the world interacting and they're not exactly socially adept either so I wouldn't say they're the gold standard for anything. Do what you like when you like with whom you like. It's your life.

Sorry this was long. I'm super verbose 🤷🏾