do you ever get stuck with verbal comebacks

well not really verbal in this case but when someone challenges my arguments online...i often get stuck for things to write back at them? my mind goes blank and i can't think of words to put...then i get wound up and frustrated...and in certain times i slammed my fists on the desk in front of me because that person who insulted me or challenged what i said, has gotten the better of me.................and i know i can't be threatening towards them otherwise it's me who gets in trouble.

any thoughts on this or ideas of what to do in this situation?

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WowwGirl · 36-40, F

Noo

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

No, as an alpha male, I always am ready with a comeback. Sometimes, it would be better if I just remained silent though. The best thing to do is to have some ready-made comebacks ready to hurl that are generic enough they will work in any situation. Over time, you will be able to customize them for each moment.

And, don't worry about "keeping score." When it comes to comebacks, scorekeeping ended in middle school.

hunkalove · 61-69, M

I think a big reason why I became a writer was that when I need to insult someone my first response is something like "Your mama wears combat boots" but given an infinite amount of time in a quiet room my profound wit and sophisticated humor will prevail.

Jackhoff · 46-50, M

Try writing the first thing that comes to mind.

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Jackhoff · 46-50, M

@WowwGirl It works for me. 😂😂😂

WowwGirl · 36-40, F

@Jackhoff to avoid insulting?

Jackhoff · 46-50, M

@WowwGirl I dont insult, just some good comebacks at them.

Ravens80 · 46-50, F

If I’m like fuming mad yes I just sputter out whatever comes to mind🤦🏻‍♀

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