Why does alternative fashion upset the “normals” so much?

The amount of hate messages I get, from mostly men, because of how I dress and my “bUlL nOsE rInG” is crazy to me.

Like when I was single, I was only interested in dating men from my scene. I wouldn’t even want those blank, plain Jane guys anyways.

It kinda reminds me of a couple girls in middle school who bullied me, but then started dressing goth later. It’s weird.