Is it cheating when you makeout wi "MAN 2" when you are interested in "Man 1" and you think Man 1 is too. You just went on a second date with Man 1

but its not official yet. I dont want to ruin anything with Man 1 😅. I mean, i dont know if man 1 really likes me or not, hes a ghost (like me) on social media. I dont want to be with a married man again, Id like something beautiful not ugly.