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Finally leaving

My gf is away and coming back tomorrow evening, basically spent the entire weekend packing all my belongings and putting them into storage so that it would be easy just to get go when the time comes. Feels very surreal doing this at all. The last thing to do is to break the news that I want to break up with her. I have no idea how I would go about doing it.
maturedragon
26-30, M
17 replies 143 views Jan 22, 2023
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SarithBorn · 18-21, M
If you want to keep most your stuff unbroken or destroyed it probably be best to move it all out first. Some people take breakups really really bad. 😬
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SarithBorn He would argue in circles about everything. I wouldn’t say he was stable. He didn’t act like he wanted to be married but he didn’t want me to leave either. I had asked him to go to counseling and he just laughed and pointed at me. At that point I knew it was all over. Coming home at night after I was asleep and cursing me for a long time while I pretended to be asleep and all that type of thing. If he wanted me to stick around he wouldn’t have done that.
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SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@cherokeepatti Doesn't sound like a happy relationship 😬
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SarithBorn He is a narcissist, he’ll never be happy with anyone. As soon as he feels comfortable he starts up.
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Elisbch · M
Just pure honesty imho.
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4meAndyou · F
Have all your things out already when she arrives. That way you can't be suckered into a lengthy argument while trying to move out.
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maturedragon · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou I don't think there will be much of an argument but got round 60% of stuff out already
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
That would be the best way if you are sure you are going to leave.
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Wol62 · 51-55, M
Oh no...does she have any idea that you feel like this?
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maturedragon · 26-30, M
@Wol62 I told her two weeks back I had zero feelings for her and possibly breaking up with her
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Funlov · M
Just do it be gone best thing move on don’t worry don’t look back
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
Do what you think is best.
Never deny yourself the happiness you deserve.
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