Yes – normal is what "the others" do. If you want to be normal, just abide by their rules.
Unless you want to be a free and interesting man

Normal is simply a generally agreed on standard in a particular region. What’s normal and acceptable in one area may not be acceptable or even legal in another.

its been so long. i dont even know

"Normal" just means following the norm, so something is "normal" if most people do that thing. It's only objective within a given context.

It all depends on variables. Location, culture, etc. So no, not really

Being "normal" is not always the best way to be.

Normal what?

Human feelings?

Weather in Seattle on any January 18th?

Spice level at Thai Ginger?

Normal stuff.

Normal doesn't exist