Apparently I take the all time first place award for....

Sounds like the third ex, but he was not in a gang when I met him. He was one of those people who would go and kick dents into the sides of cars with his enormous chunky platform shoes, in the company of one or two select friends, who seemed to be involved with some dangerous people in South Boston and Dorchester.

Every thing else you mentioned, (bipolar and wants to kill girlfriends and/or wives), is identical.

I realize that you already know this, but nothing about this behavior is love. It's about owning you, and his freakish control issues.

If you get a good view of the people stalking you, take pictures so they can be identified later.

Get a recording of his threats and give the recording to the police. They will take care of your hothead boyfriend, and give him a reality check.

Change boyfriends

This could be a very interesting post if some take your challenge:) Bad luck if you are the "Winner."

You need a better guy to get your rocks off. One not totally self absorbed

Do you need a boyfriend?

Taking breaks is essential to good health.

If he's worst and you know it, then why is he still your boyfriend ?☹️