Do you think you attract a certain type of person that is unhealthy for you? If so why do you think that is?

I am a cheater and creep magnet. I take the blame, because I am the one with bad tastes clearly as this isn't my first rodeo with this type. Just trying to figure out why I keep doing this.

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Stark

Hmm, I do think if you’re not able to notice red flags in the situations you’re in then naturally you will accept relationships that aren’t healthy or good for you. It’s important for you to get to know who you are as a person, what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship; stick by that, and also know when to walk away and become aware of the signs of a cheater.

I use to always fall for unavailable or avoidant men. Once I began to set boundaries, expect healthy communication, and walk away from situations that I wasn’t happy in I became closer and closer to what I wanted in a partner. And now I’m content and have the best partner I could ever ask for.