Do you think you attract a certain type of person that is unhealthy for you? If so why do you think that is?

I seem to particularly like unavailable men....

I put it down to my fear of being vulnerable enough to be truly connected to someone

A lot of my ex-boyfriends were into selling drugs, doing drugs, heavy drinkers, just all out into partying and taking no responsibility or growing up in general. I have a kid now so I have to grow up myself and try to stay out of trouble..

I was horribly abused, and I wanted to be a knight as a boy and save the princess.

So I'm constantly like "which women is horribly broken beyond repair?! I must fix her! I must save her day!"

I attract users and takers. Never the people I respect and desire to share with. The why is because I’m nice. It’s my personality and I don’t want to stop being a loving generous person so I mostly stay away from people so they don’t rip my heart out.

I seem to attract people that are into playing games. Nothing like six months of I love yous followed by being blocked after they tell you it was all a lie. How someone can be that evil is beyond me.

Hmm, I do think if you’re not able to notice red flags in the situations you’re in then naturally you will accept relationships that aren’t healthy or good for you. It’s important for you to get to know who you are as a person, what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship; stick by that, and also know when to walk away and become aware of the signs of a cheater.

I use to always fall for unavailable or avoidant men. Once I began to set boundaries, expect healthy communication, and walk away from situations that I wasn’t happy in I became closer and closer to what I wanted in a partner. And now I’m content and have the best partner I could ever ask for.

Don't take the blame for others,it will keep you a creep magnet.
Women can and should stand up for themselves.
Don't agree to anything against your morals, beliefs,or boundaries.

absolutely. I seem to attract mental cases without a doubt. I dont know why but it is what it is

Yes. The elements that seem to be attracted to me are "Needy, broken and fairly sad or depressed."

I think patterns can be hard to break.

Men who are as equally unhappy in their marriage as I am.
Gaslighters.
Emotionally unstable