Desperation for love can be a extremely toxic to long term mental and spiritual health.
The bases to achieving love.
Most younger males during and post pubescent tend to naturally have this desperation on jumping straight to sex base. Commonly referred to as 3rd base.
However, there is a minimum of 2 bases to go through before that in order to achieve a healthy love life. None of which can legitimately be achieved overnight nor in any fast race. Both of them take years and months to achieve.
Common causes of that desperation.
All peers being surrounded by have wifes and kids.
Parents are getting old and want grandkids while they are still socially abled.
Fear of being looked down upon as being less of a person of alternative sexual orientation.
The healthy achievement of love is not a race. It's a journey. A journey that takes as long as it takes. Some achieve it by 21 l, some take til their 40s 50s and older to achieve it.
Most younger males during and post pubescent tend to naturally have this desperation on jumping straight to sex base. Commonly referred to as 3rd base.
However, there is a minimum of 2 bases to go through before that in order to achieve a healthy love life. None of which can legitimately be achieved overnight nor in any fast race. Both of them take years and months to achieve.
Common causes of that desperation.
All peers being surrounded by have wifes and kids.
Parents are getting old and want grandkids while they are still socially abled.
Fear of being looked down upon as being less of a person of alternative sexual orientation.
The healthy achievement of love is not a race. It's a journey. A journey that takes as long as it takes. Some achieve it by 21 l, some take til their 40s 50s and older to achieve it.
41-45, M
