Just because you don't think it can be done means it's really impossible, not when a roadblock to you is just a small hurdle to me.

It's a bad pet peeve that annoys me so when I hear people say "It can't be done" without even trying to look for possibilities.

Like, so what? It's hard? Then think outside of the box. You want it, right? Find other ways. Unless you've actually put out your best effort and sought ought resources that could help, don't even think of mentioning it can't be done.

Some people face hard things all the time. And guess what? It can be done.

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Carissimi · F

What annoys me is when someone says “if I can do it, anyone can do it.” It’s true that some can find ways to do things that others will never be able to do for various reasons and variables.

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Carissimi For some, it's not a matter of choice but necessity. Some people do better because they have to.

Not anyone can do that, I know. But for the people around those who are like me, I think they ought to at least try to help. Otherwise, they just become burdens.

Carissimi · F

I suppose it depends on the context. You are saying people should try and help, so it sounds like a specific situation you are in. @Casheyane