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I know this man at work is interested in me. He uses any chance he can to touch my back or bump into me...

He knows how old I am and that I'm single now. But every single time we have a chance to talk just the two of us he's tapping away on his phone and doesn't even know I'm there.

It's good because I recognize that as avoidance/distraction. Him being interested, but not enough to reach out at an appropriate time isn't gonna cut it.

Seems dumb I guess but this is a growth moment for me to be healthy and not chase someone for scraps like I normally do.
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meggie · F
I think he likes you and is shy. If you are interested, ask him if he'd like a coffee the next time it's office rounds (i mean a coffee you made or bought and placed on his desk). Then he will have to chat or return the favour.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Well done!

and think of this: if he isn't your Prince Charming and it doesn't work out - you're going to have to look at him 5 days a week.
JackOatMon · 46-50, M
That is great. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
I guess he's kinda odd. If I were in a situation like that I'd be making eye contact and engaging.
@Mudkip he does that sometimes. I can't tell if he's shy maybe, but I can tell he feels the magnetism. Who knows maybe he's got a gf.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@MarbleMarvel maybe. I remember going through something similar with a coworker years ago. But I absolutely loved making eye contact with her, and I knew what I was doing to her lol. But yeah, maybe he's shy or has a gf.
Blondily · F
Good for you
Dont ever settle for scraps
Your avatar is gorgeous btw🥰
Good on you.

Make him do any chasing.
Lilymoon · F
Work romances usually aren't a good idea anyway. 🤷🏻‍♀
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@Lilymoon Or as we used to say "you don't poop where you eat and sleep"
@Lilymoon I'm about to quit pretty soon, otherwise I wouldn't go there.
slorollin · 41-45, M
His loss. Not yours
@slorollin exactly. Another version of me would of tried harder to get some scraps, but I'll hold out for someone who thinks I'm worth the effort.
slorollin · 41-45, M
@MarbleMarvel Good for you. That's how it should be.
Thats pretty strange 😂
@MicrowaveDinner what do you mean?
Well, then

GOOD FOR YOU!!


😊😊😊
PrimeTime · 51-55, M
Belief in yourself and self confidence. This is sexy
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
why are you fingering the phone instead of me?
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Red flag galore with that one

Next time he tries to slyly touch your back or something, ask him not to touch you 🤣
georgelong · 46-50, M
Indeed. Very intuitive 😀

 
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