I would say i hate men but hate is such a strong word.

The way I see it, sometimes the old axioms work. In this case I would have to say, "if the shoe fits....wear it." Your man left you for another woman. IF she knew he was attached, she IS that home wrecker.

I do appreciate your making the distinction that you're referring to [i]some[/i] men, rather than [i]all[/i] men, because "all" is the constant banal cry of so many here. From my perspective, if we are to keep it on a plane of truth, we have to be able to differentiate between the factual and the subjective. On THIS site, I would have to say that perhaps 30% of what we read is factual regarding the sexes. The rest is distortion, because there is zero accountability here and a whole lotta bashin' goin' on. 😏

I hope you find the right man if you're still looking. He [i]is[/i] out there you know.
My best.

The energy I hear from a lot of women is "I don't hate men but I do kinda hate being attracted to them."

There are days where I feel like I hate most men too, but then again there must be few good ones like my dad was.

I think men are just bad at being human. Definitely hateable.

Men and women have two different (not opposing) objectives in life. The route to success is not to expect one sex to think, act or believe like the other sex and still find a way to get along.

Life is cruel
Both men and women can be idiots

{@mergirl123] sorry that he has walked out on you . he has been caught out andhe does not like too take responsibilty for this so he took the easy way out basically

Better luck next time.

Unfortunately, the other woman didn’t wreck your home. He wrecked his own home by choosing to cheat. And he sounds like a real jerk. But he’s just one guy, and you’re right, you can’t visit his misdeeds onto all men, including the man your son will become. 🥺

Its cool we get that alot until u looken for some ...