The way I see it, sometimes the old axioms work. In this case I would have to say, "if the shoe fits....wear it." Your man left you for another woman. IF she knew he was attached, she IS that home wrecker.
I do appreciate your making the distinction that you're referring to some men, rather than all men, because "all" is the constant banal cry of so many here. From my perspective, if we are to keep it on a plane of truth, we have to be able to differentiate between the factual and the subjective. On THIS site, I would have to say that perhaps 30% of what we read is factual regarding the sexes. The rest is distortion, because there is zero accountability here and a whole lotta bashin' goin' on. 😏
I hope you find the right man if you're still looking. He is out there you know.
My best.
