Should I talk to him like nothing happen?

Yesterday, he saw a bad side of me. When I get stressed and I don't want to talk about anything but yet I do. I told him I'm worried that he is leading me on and he clarified that he isn't and he does want us to happen, but if I am reserved it will be hard. I am honestly embarrassed and don't want to talk to him. He said everything was fine but, I don't know why I don't want to talk to him. I haven't replied to any messages, I'm just really embarrassed and want to step away. He saw a bad side of me that I did not want him to see.

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EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M

Part of being together IS seeing each others bad side. The same way that part of moving in together IS having to deal with each others stink in the bathroom....the rest more than makes up for that!

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@Synapse: But we aren't even in a relationship yet, it's more like seeing where this goes, taking it slow.

EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M

@hopeespe: but your considering that possibility and since you're considering that possibility you might as well be honest with each other up front rather than put on an act and regret it down the line

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@Synapse: We are honest, I just hate that side of me, I don't know what he might think of me now.

EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M

@hopeespe: that you're a human being. Flaws and all, like the rest of us. He might even feel closer to you. I hope it all works out.
Good luck